Once a group has meant its goal and objective it moves to the adjourning stage. This stage is vital in teamwork because at some point the team splints up and we can share with others what we have learned and can adjourn with a positive ending. The closing rituals that we had was we had a farewell get together we gave each other hugs, high fives and set a date for a time to get together after the carnival.
The hardest group that I had to leave was when I transferred to a new school to work at. The first job that I had working at a school my co-workers and I had to play the school carnival and we all came in with a positive attitude and great ideals. Even though we all worked in different grade levels we still had a great time and grew together both personally and professionally. Those are the times I will remember even though I left we still get together at least 2 or 3 times a year. When my husband died I got the greatest support from the group that I worked together with and we have an everlasting bond.
As our time is getting close to leave with our Master’s degree I feel that has I adjourn from all of my colleagues at Walden I will feel sad but happy at the same time. I will feel sad because I will miss my classmates and professors that I learned so much from. I will be happy because I would have fulfilled my dream of getting my degree that I have always wanted. Even though we are saying good-bye to each other but hopefully stay in contact through e-mails and Facebook.
Hi Mary,
ReplyDeleteThanks for sharing your experience with that special group of co-workers! Let me add that on one hand, I am so sad to hear about your loss; on the other, I am so glad you had the support of a special group to help you through what must have been a tough, tough time in your life. Your comments reinforce why I believe it is so hard to part company with high-performing groups. They really do become like family—your example illustrates that perfectly. And, as with family, when dramatic changes occur, isn’t is so important to have that closure? Why would it be any different with the extended families we’ve grown over the years?
Thanks for your story, and I hope we share a few more classes together before graduation.
Sandi
HI Mary , I enjoyed reading your blog . I agree with you it's hard leaving a group where you felt comfortable and had support from your group members its such a good feeling. I wish you great success.
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ReplyDeleteI will feel the same way when we complete our degree. I just thank you for being you because as I continue on my journey, I can continue to learn from you along with the rest of our colleagues. We all will change the world as we adjourn from Walden.
Hi Mary, I wanted to send you a Thank you note for your positive and motivational comments have inspired me throughout this course and I wish you nothing but the best. Maranda
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